The title says it all. Being married to a black, and dealing with black inlaws is a nightmare.
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Are you white? Tell us more. I bet before Obama it didn't really matter and now it's like walking on eggshells.
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Yes I am as white as they come. Small town white country guy, wife is from south side of Houston father is Nigerian.
My wife is wilfully ignorant. She has no political opinions of her own. She occasionally vomits up something she read, i then do the interrogative questioning Gav suggests. She will not even have a discussion with me if is political.
Her family are typical "tRuMp iS rAcIsT" blacks and buy into victim culture. Everything with them has a racist undertone.
None of that is really something I cannot deal with, but it's hard as a white man getting shit on 24/7 then also in your pvt life dealing with racial shit.
The only time I feel at ease is at my parents house. Maybe I need to turn my office into a white room.fill it full of white things to recharge my batteries.
I'm married to a black woman, from my perspective you're doing it wrong.
WTF do your inlaws have to do with your daily life. If they have TDS let them seethe elsewhere.
I'm assuming you're not living with them, so if they're visiting your house politely point out that you disagree with their opinions and while their welcome to have them keep it to a minimum while they're visiting your house where you're the head of the household. (Obviously reciprocate in their house). The point is you're paying the bills here so you have a right not to hear bullshit in your own house.
Where you live should make you comfortable. If you can't put your white things, what ever they are, around the house you're not comfortable. Why is your wife even considering that bs theory any way doesn't she realize that it will make your kids disrespect you too?
She knew what she was getting when she married you, if she has a problem following the lead of a white man she wouldn't have married you. (Also, are africans chauvinistic so she has to listen to how you want the house run). It's not like you can stop being white, so all of that intersectionality, ally bullshit should be forbidden in your house.
Don't argue with her about politics, just watch Gavin, Shapiro, owens, Crowder in the open and let them make the argument. Show her sjw freakouts. When people argue they dig in their heels, when they observe, they reconsider.
My wife and her sister recently told me they're both voting trump. I didn't have a singular political arguement with them. My in-laws are still die hard Democrats but I don't care. My wife is currently trying to convince her dad that Joe Biden is a pedophile with dementia. So you're doing it wrong.
Yeah, I have to concur, I don’t see why your home isn’t your sanctuary if it’s only the parents. Your wife married you, I take it she knew you were white when she did that right? I am surprised though about the parents, Nigerians are usually pretty based and usually have contempt for that type of thinking.
An important pounder: I don’t think gav would ever suggest interrogating questions for your spouse.