I emailed censored.tv and i dont remember getting a response but people are saying he's already responded!
A 36 year old (Italian) woman wants me to help her have a child. She says she wants to raise it by herself (no man), but she lives near her family who can help her if she needs it.
a) Im personable now, but I was an absolute monster as a child (she doesnt know this, she thinks ive always been normal)
b) I didnt have a dad growing up and I think it would have helped a lot, I dont know if I want a child to be raised by a single mum
c) she wants to bang to make the child, IDK if its against my faith to do so. I dont consider this to be a religious issue though, but maybe I dont want to
Is it better for the child to live without a Father than to never exist at all?
Wait so this guy isn’t trolling?
who? me?
I don't know which episode he responded but I think we can all tell you almost verbatim what he would've said....
DON'T DO IT YOU IDIOT! FUCKING OBVIOUSLY! I do recall him mentioning even if she isn't a crazy bitch right now she can still come back in ten years and hit you up for every bit of child support that you never paid, and judging by her request it sounds like she's already crazy. I think it's safe to assume that Gavin will always say having a father is better. Plus, what do you get out of this? One lay? You're willing to risk the rest of your life for that? Jesus Christ.
what makes her sound crazy? I think she is but for other reasons. how do you think she's crazy?
Listen I've never met the woman but her asking a somebody (a stranger possibly) from another country to get her pregnant and then fuck right off sounds like something a crazy woman would do. I'm not saying she is crazy, but it seems like a crazy idea. If she was so serious about this I imagine she would look for the most reputable agency available to facilitate such a thing, not just some guy from a different country. Plus I just think it would be a dick move to father a kid when we know how big of a disadvantage it is for them. And I still don't understand what you get out of such a risky transaction, are you just trying to bang her? If so, we can have a conversation about that and I have some suggestions but otherwise why put yourself at such a risk? I'm not trying to be a dick man I just want to be real with you.
We're not strangers per say, we spoke for a week or two but we did meet through a website that connects sperm donors with people. I'd be happy to just jizz in a cup for her but if she's happy to do it the old fashioned way, I am too. I think perhaps from her perspective, she's 36 and not in a relationship but she wants a child. She said a friend of hers offered but she's not interested. I had no dad and I turned out ok I think. In a perfect world we all would but you take the world as you find it. plus not having a father made me want to be a good one one day, so maybe that could be true of my child if its a boy.
The question is 'is no life better than a life without a father?' I dont think so, plus the birthrates in the west are plummeting so every life matters. She'd have a family to help her raise it. I dont think youre a dick, mate.
A contract is a good idea and I think the reason she asked me was because sperm banks are expensive.
she lives in italy and im in the UK. Do you think I could just disappear if she tries to hit me up for child support? ill look into that contract idea though.
Dude, why would you knowingly make a decision in which you might be required to "disappear"? Secondly, it's fucking tough to disappear these days. Even if she offered me $20k and we had an ironclad contract I still wouldn't do it.
20K and an iron clad contract wouldnt win you?!
dont tell me youre one of those "hOw CaN YoU BriNg a ChiLd InTo ThiS WorLD?!" people, there seem to be so many black pilled fuckers these days for NO reason
$500? then I'm no better than the sperm donor clinic racket!
Its a freebie but I should get a signature on something. Your brother went through this exact situation??
I would be open to my child knowing me, sure. Why wouldnt I be?
What youre saying makes perfect sense, if there's a payment then it can be seen as nothing more than a transaction. I just dont want to ask for money for this, there must be another way.
good on him, what was the set up? did she try to screw him over in the future?