I emailed censored.tv and i dont remember getting a response but people are saying he's already responded!
A 36 year old (Italian) woman wants me to help her have a child. She says she wants to raise it by herself (no man), but she lives near her family who can help her if she needs it.
a) Im personable now, but I was an absolute monster as a child (she doesnt know this, she thinks ive always been normal)
b) I didnt have a dad growing up and I think it would have helped a lot, I dont know if I want a child to be raised by a single mum
c) she wants to bang to make the child, IDK if its against my faith to do so. I dont consider this to be a religious issue though, but maybe I dont want to
Is it better for the child to live without a Father than to never exist at all?
Listen I've never met the woman but her asking a somebody (a stranger possibly) from another country to get her pregnant and then fuck right off sounds like something a crazy woman would do. I'm not saying she is crazy, but it seems like a crazy idea. If she was so serious about this I imagine she would look for the most reputable agency available to facilitate such a thing, not just some guy from a different country. Plus I just think it would be a dick move to father a kid when we know how big of a disadvantage it is for them. And I still don't understand what you get out of such a risky transaction, are you just trying to bang her? If so, we can have a conversation about that and I have some suggestions but otherwise why put yourself at such a risk? I'm not trying to be a dick man I just want to be real with you.
We're not strangers per say, we spoke for a week or two but we did meet through a website that connects sperm donors with people. I'd be happy to just jizz in a cup for her but if she's happy to do it the old fashioned way, I am too. I think perhaps from her perspective, she's 36 and not in a relationship but she wants a child. She said a friend of hers offered but she's not interested. I had no dad and I turned out ok I think. In a perfect world we all would but you take the world as you find it. plus not having a father made me want to be a good one one day, so maybe that could be true of my child if its a boy.
The question is 'is no life better than a life without a father?' I dont think so, plus the birthrates in the west are plummeting so every life matters. She'd have a family to help her raise it. I dont think youre a dick, mate.